How do you relax?
I think this is one of the hardest things to do as a mother. I actually think it’s the most difficult thing to commit to as a mom next to self-care in general. The best way I’ve figured out how to do it is to stick to my routine, that way the kids and I both have a flow. Instead of feeling like the day is complete chaos, I can relax and really enjoy my time with them while they’re still so little.
100% transparency: I think everyone needs some time to themselves. I take the kids to daycare sometimes on a day I have off from work. Sometimes I still make the mistake of focusing only on housework/projects/errands I can’t do while they’re with me. I try to split it up though, and once in a while I treat myself to a manicure, or browsing at Hobby Lobby, or I take myself out to lunch. It helps sometimes to just have a quiet day to yourself, so you can reset with a little self-care. And, of course, once in a while, treat yo self! LOL.